Wednesday, 5 June 2024
Après nous le déluge?
Tuesday, 4 June 2024
Back to the Sixties in a minute
Sunday, 26 May 2024
Wildflower-Bouquet of May
Thursday, 23 May 2024
Decision FOR My Happiness
I had to think for a while. Or better: feel. Recover from a (mild) shock.
Then I came to the conclusion that it would be mad to let one person not only rain on my parade, but stop me doing something I love.
I talk of writing.
So I'll take a deep plunge and meet (the rest of) my friends again.
Sunday, 31 March 2024
"I've got it, yeah, baby, I've got it!"
Well, well, well... For days I was in a position that Yours Truly utterly hates: I was "Anonymous" - even on my own blog!
"You only see those standing in the light/ Those standing in the dark you do not see"wrote our sociocritical poet Bertolt Brecht.
Have you ever got the impression that I hate standing in the spotlight? Not me. Even while getting older I do not accept to be overlooked. NO.
The photo above I took a few days ago - here in the early morning you sometimes see only a wall of fog, and a few tree tops.
INVISIBLE. Bah! I even asked for help in the community, and they kindly answered - Thank you! - in English - THAT was not the problem, no - my problem was their technical jargon - and honestly: if someone does not know what they EXACTLY mean with a browser you have a problem. Which I had.(Though I know how to help myself and scrolled the Internet, which kindly did not start it's answer with "Dear Idiot"... :-)
Of course I suspected that "cookies" had something to do with it - I avoid them as the devil avoids the the holy water as we in Germany say while you say: "to avoid something like the plague".
Well - if you see how many users want your and my cookies...
Long time ago Son explained: "Mama, you either pay with money or with data".
But here I do not even have a choice. If I want to be seen.
So: to be able to communicate with you further, also with Rachel and others who will have very good reasons to close their blog completely against any anonymous commentator I scatter my cookies all around.
Here, cookie monster: chick, chick, chick: munch, crumble, gobble!
Wednesday, 27 March 2024
Back and almost ready for Easter
As you might guess: I spent one wonderful week in the Netherlands.
Now I have a lot of work to do before I can start blogging again.
I apologize to all of you for not being able to comment your blogs: I read them, but evidently I muddled something contra Google's wish for data - thus I am kept away from commenting.
I'll try to fix that.
Till then: I wish you a Happy Easter time. The little village here is already nicely adorned:
Wednesday, 13 March 2024
Posture - or: How To Look Slim, Energetic, Powerful and Younger in a second
Posture. Well, well, well... "Stand tall!" "Sit upright!" mother reminded us.
I have to confess that my posture never was Very Good - I am a tall woman, 1,78m, and though I found out that this has many advantages (I could work as a model and now silver model, was not overlooked when I entered a room - very important for a committee or as teacher) - it has also some drawbacks.
When you are 15 years old you want to be as everybody else - so in my peer group I curved my shoulders.
A tall girl seldom wants a lover who is shorter than her (though there are exceptions: beautiful Carla Bruni and Monsieur Sarkozy). And though I know that this is very shallow, and found out that in bed the flaw disappears, I wanted to wear kitten heels or High Heels and "look up" (silly again).
"You" - a dressmaker said to me, " will get problems with your hip if you stand like that!"
I looked at her and thought "Prattle on!" (I was 15) - and protruded my right hip in the typical model angle - très chic. Today I think: she had a point. No big problems with my hip, thank God, but sometimes I can feel it.
Walking with the then tiny triplets made my not very good posture even worse.
So now it is really, really time for action. I read some enlightening books , go to the fitness club, do exercises from Youtube - and try to recall it when I stand up from an armchair WITHOUT using my hands (at least I do not say "Phew!", as some friends of mine have started - "phew" when they sit down and "phew" when they try to get up...)
"Keeping up appearances" - a dress looks so much nicer when you hold your head up tight (young people nowadays slouch over their cellphone - and their posture is as bad as mine...)
Your waistline looks so much slimmer when you stand tall.
And you look younger. Definitely.
But it takes some effort now. (Phew!)