Britta's Letters from her life divided between city-life in German's capital Berlin and life in a Bavarian village

Monday, 6 January 2025

Loathing perfection, yet adoring beauty.

 

Yesterday I was very happy to be there in my flat in Bavaria when the carollers came along and blessed the house. Glued the blessing over my front door. 




Later I choose a motto for 2025, a quote out of Nabil Fanous book "The Universal Rules of Life":

It is Rule 1:  "Do it now, perfect it later.

He meant me, I am quite sure. And of cause he is right: "Intentions aren't the same as action." So I spare you my New Year's resolutions. I have them - but if they only exist in my head or my heart I shall keep my mouth shut. (Haha - that's one of my New Year's resolutions: I talk too much - that takes away a lot of energy - mine, and that of others). 

I always admire people in films: taciturn and wise they LISTEN to the other one and only utter one wise half-sentence in 15 minutes. My only excuse: I worked as a councillor - and in my long life I listened 30.000 hours (!) to 30.000 young people. Which I did with high interest, really - but after that I took a deep breath and started to talk more myself - and now I train myself to listen - again). 

I wish all of you a good start in 2025! 




4 comments:

  1. The only excuse I have for talking so much is that I like to talk. My worst habit is interrupting when someone else is speaking.

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  2. That is very true. Intentions are easy to create, quick to inform people and largely admirable. Actions take effort and often money, and are not always applauded by others.

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  3. Best to keep resolutions to yourself. You will know how well you are succeeding.

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  4. Wise resolutions for a new year.
    I like what you write about the first step,
    I believe the same, you have to start and then finish!!
    Have a beautiful happy and lucky year.

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