...and 3 Ways to Do It" is the title of a recent article by Peggy Drexler, Ph.D.
I know more than three ways, and entirely without the help of a Ph.D. -
After reading year after year the hymn of praise on my modesty in my school reports (believe it or not!) at the working place I woke up, decided not to be overlooked anymore and trained myself hard to change - with success.
(Nowadays I am trying to become mellow and modest again).
Will you think it is bragging when I show you of a link at The Londonist:
http://londonist.com/2014/09/surprising-photos-of-st-pauls-revealed.php
and then murmur under my breath: "I love the two photos I shot from St. Paul's this year, - may I add them?"
PS: The title of Drexler's article reminds me of the (still) hilarious first film I ever (!) saw in a cinema: "The Knack... And how to Get It" by Richard Lester, with Rita Tushingham. (I was a tall girl and thus could add a few years to my tender age - now I do the opposite :-)